August 17th 2015
In a recent post I mentioned Albert Ellis, the psychotherapist who was known for his disdain for “shoulding.” I talked about shoulding on others in that post. Now, we need to talk about shoulding on yourself, as in:
August 4th 2015
Below is a link to a podcast from Thriveal CPA Network, where I am a community coach and incubator mentor. In the podcast, Jason Blumer, Greg Kyte, and I discuss communication by looking at ethos, pathos, and logos (thank you, Aristotle). The conversation quickly gets to practical ways professionals can be more effective communicators, and maybe even rise to the level of greatness. Hint: being human and humane are key.
July 27th 2015
No matter how many conversations I have with business people, when I ask them what the biggest issue is for their organizations, the answer is almost always the same: communication. Part of me breathes a sigh of relief, because improving communication is what I do for a living. But part of me thinks, Man, this stuff is so simple. Why aren’t people better at it?
July 20th 2015
Psychotherapist and psychologist Albert Ellis developed Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy in the 1950s. Always blunt, Dr. Ellis was known to declare that “should-hood leads to shit-hood.”
July 15th 2015
Here's a video of AccountingWeb's live CPE that took place last November. I got to hang out with power players like Michelle Golden, Geni Whitehouse, Doug Sleeter and a slew of others. We talked about all kinds of things pertinent to CPAs and other professional knowledge workers. My topic was how to lead yourself even when the leadership in your firm isn't what you would hope for. Here's the link:
July 7th 2015
Hiking over the past year at an 8,000-foot elevation has taught me a few things that apply to working life. I hope you find them useful.
July 6th 2015
Brittany, a twenty-something employee, received her annual evaluation. She got a pretty good review from her boss, along with a nice raise (at least in the boss’ opinion).
June 15th 2015
A friend of mine, describing a former employer, said something like this: “That woman just sucks the bliss out of every happy moment. Doesn’t matter what it is. She has a way of seeing the negative in everything – and never fails to express it.”